Ironic

While driving to dinner the below conversation occurred:

F : Eh..you very important person in my life lei…if do not have you, my life will be void of something la..

Me: (completely speechless & stunned for a moment)…..Ooooii..where’s the normal one I used to hang out with ah?? Go back to your normal self la….not used to it la

F : See, humans are like this, when you have it, you do not want it & vice versa..

(If the above are uttered by an ordinary person, I will feel either all blushed up or feel appreciated, but it was from a non ordinary person, one who gives me the death looks that immediately shuts me up whenever my playful flirt mood is on, someone who rarely playfully flirt with me and yet the one I loves to flirt with....)

This starts a flow of discussions, life experience tales of why we humans are so ‘Farn Jin’. Attention - when we don’t have it, we long for it, and yet when we have it, we feel that we do not really need it, and wants more personal space.

We, humans love to complicate things.., the more complicated the better.

But again, without desire, where’s the beauty & purpose of life?